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Self-censoring in conversations with friends
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I've started self-censoring more and more. In conversations, online, even with friends. I have opinions but I've seen what happens when people say the wrong thing, so I keep quiet. It feels lonely. I used to be able to talk openly and now I second-guess everything before I say it.It sounds like you're holding back in situations where you once felt free to speak your mind. The shift from being open to cautious can feel very isolating, especially when it happens even with friends.
01 · Answer any, leave any
Reflective questions
Question 1 of 5
02 · Pick one to try this week
Quick exercises
Reflection on past conversations
Spend 5 minutes writing about a recent conversation where you held back your opinion. Reflect on what you wanted to say and what stopped you.
Pros & Cons of speaking freely
List the pros and cons of expressing your true opinions in conversations with friends.
Adjust self-talk before speaking
Next time you're about to speak in a conversation, notice if you're having internal dialogue that holds you back. Just observe it, no need to change it yet.
03 · Bring it to your therapist
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