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Feeling like a burden when sharing feelings

You wrote

I keep feeling like I'm too much for the people around me. When I talk about how I'm feeling, I worry I'm draining them. So I've started keeping things to myself, which makes me feel more alone. I want to reach out but something stops me every time.

It sounds like you're caught between wanting to connect and the fear that you might be overwhelming the ones you care about. This holds you back and leaves you feeling isolated, even when it's apparent you have so much you wish to share.

01 · Answer any, leave any

Reflective questions

Question 1 of 5

02 · Pick one to try this week

Quick exercises

  • Timed Reflection on Holding Back

    Spend 5 minutes writing about a recent occasion when you wanted to share but chose not to, focusing on what held you back.

  • Perceived vs Reality List

    Write down 3-5 things you believe happen when you share your feelings with others and 3-5 actual outcomes you've experienced.

  • Notice a Safe Moment

    Next time you're with someone you trust, notice how they respond when you share something small about your day (real-world).

03 · Bring it to your therapist

Your next session

A line or two is plenty. It stays with this worksheet, so you don't have to find the words on the day.

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